Unrestrained, men will sleep with any available hole if they’re horny enough. Actually, if pregnancy, social shame, and potential diseases were not byproducts of sex, I think virtually everyone would be getting it in as much as they could, even in public. I think that people inherently are hos, mostly, and it doesn’t matter your gender or sexual orientation. Some just practice their hoing more than others.
I saw something on Twitter about people talking about the “Friend Zone”. Some people think of the friend zone as a place where men say they are when they are friends with a woman. She isn’t into him, but he keeps doing things to show interest that is not reciprocated. I’ve seen some guys go so […]
In all the fight for gay marriage and gay rights recently, one can choose to overlook some nastiness about gays. Generally speaking, gays (like anyone else, honestly) are messy. Drunk, high, bitchy, queeny, gossipy, mean, cruel, slutty, cheat-y, and back-stabbing – all accurate descriptions of gays. A few cases in point: 1. Recently met someone […]
This post comes from a personal place. I can speak on interracial dating and relationships because, well, that’s mostly what I’ve done. I’ve only dated about 5 people in my race. My three longest dating/relationships were with whites. There have been a couple Asians and a couple Latins (the danger zone…for me. That’s a compliment, […]
Get it together even when it hurts… Be good to yourself, for you can’t love nobody else. – Ledisi I struggled to write this as I didn’t want to be completely raw here, but I decided to do so. I think this newfound clarity and contentment comes from being in a place where I’m happy […]
I went to therapy today just for one little appointment (I go from time to time when I reach a “wall” where I can’t figure out things through prayer, friends, etc.) to find out why I was internalizing so much rejection from my recent dating experiences. It all came down to that I am looking […]
Gather ’round, youngins, I’ll tell you a tale. A tale of how a woman lost her chance at getting the draws in only ten days. Shannon tried his best to be a good guy. He liked dating and really liked having sex, but he knew it was best to wait it out. He hadn’t waited […]